| w to find out if your boyfriend is married or your | | | | close attention to the way he says it. If he looks |
| girlfriend has a husband | | | | uneasy and avoids making eye contact with you |
| New love can burn so brightly that it blinds you to | | | | when he answers then he could be lying to you. If |
| all but what you want to see. Have you stopped | | | | this happens then ask "are you sure you're not |
| to consider that your new boyfriend or girlfriend | | | | married". If he starts to sweat or gets annoyed |
| might have a spouse at home already? I bet you | | | | then that too can be a sign that all is not as it |
| haven't and why should you suspect anything? I | | | | appears. |
| mean he's charming, good looking and really turns | | | | 3: Do a lie detector test on him |
| you on right. Well I guess that you wouldn't be | | | | No I don't mean that you should strap him up to |
| reading this if you didn't have even a little doubt | | | | a polygraph or anything like that. There is an |
| about your new lover so how can you find out | | | | easier and altogether more relaxing way do do it. |
| the truth? | | | | All you have to do is talk to him a lot and ask him |
| 1: Ask his friends if he's married | | | | a lot of questions. You do this anyway right so it's |
| Ok this is an obvious thing to do but many people | | | | no big deal. |
| overlook it. If you know any of his friends then | | | | The trick to detecting lies is to really listen to the |
| get to know them a bit better and ask them | | | | answers that he gives you. If today he tells you |
| about your boyfriend. Usually they will be only too | | | | he's an airline pilot but last week he told you that |
| pleased to tell you all about him, the bad as well | | | | he was scared of heights and that he has poor |
| as the good so it can be an invaluable source of | | | | eyesight then this might just be a lie. If he tells |
| information. Most people will warn you if there's | | | | you that he's a doctor but you can't figure out |
| anything that you should be concerned about so if | | | | when he actually studied and worked as one then |
| they are married, or are already in a relationship, | | | | this could also be a lie. |
| then there is a good chance that they will tell you. | | | | Look for inconsistencies in the things that he tells |
| If you find that the friends are less than talkative | | | | you. Remember it only takes one lie to make him |
| and avoid your questions then you should start | | | | a liar. If you can find just one thing that you know |
| worrying. The person you are talking to may | | | | is definitely a lie then how can you trust anything |
| know something that they feel you ought to | | | | else he's told you? |
| know but they don't want to be the one to tell | | | | 4: Do an online background check on your |
| you. They might give you a hint, a little warning | | | | boyfriend to find out if he's married |
| like "be careful" or "I don't want you to get hurt". | | | | When you've found out all you can about your |
| This should start alarm bells ringing right away and | | | | boyfriend or girlfriend by talking to him or his |
| you should be looking for other ways to find out | | | | friends you can do an online background check on |
| if he's married. | | | | him to find out not only whether he's married or |
| 2: Ask your boyfriend if he's married | | | | not but also whether he has a criminal record, |
| This sounds even more obvious than asking his | | | | whether he has arrest warrants or has ever been |
| friends doesn't it? But you assume that he's not | | | | declared bankrupt. In fact you can often find out |
| married don't you? If he's married what is he | | | | practically anything you might want to know and |
| doing going out with you? A good question so ask | | | | if it all matches with what he's telling you then |
| it. Be direct and come straight out with it to give | | | | you can put your mind to rest and take your |
| yourself the element of surprise. | | | | relationship to wherever you want it to go. If it |
| Now he's going to say "no of course I'm not | | | | doesn't then walk away. |
| married" whether he is or not so you must pay | | | | |